My Ladies

My ladies, stop comparing yourself to other girls. We are all beautiful and unique in our own ways. I know I have a bad habit of comparing myself to other girls especially if I think my boyfriend thinks they’re cute, but that’s an insecurity within myself….always trying to be better than the next chick. We (girls) have a horrible habit of tearing each other down instead of trying to uplift one another. Everyone is beautiful….sure you may not have a feature that the other girl has but that doesn’t make you any less pretty. And STOP letting this men make you feel like you have to look a certain way….if that’s the case then he ain’t the one for you. Be with someone who thinks you are beautiful even on your worst days when you want to crawl back in bed and try it again tomorrow. Find someone who looks at you for more than just your breast or your ass….Find someone who can make you feel special. Too often have I put myself down thinking that my boyfriend didn’t think I was as pretty as other girls…when in fact it has been myself looking and wanting to be like someone else. Embrace what makes you you and love yourself flaws and all. How about this…the next time you go to talk bad about someone try to find something to compliment them about instead.

Hate to leave….

Just got back from my mini “vacation” in Charlotte and it was great. But of course it always sucks when it is time to leave. We did go look at apartments and actually found one that we both liked, so things are moving in the right direction. I am trying to stay positive in all of this but I always hate when I come home and I am excited about something especially moving out and nobody else is even really listening to what I am saying. I’m the type of person that will listen to what you have to tell me, or you can vent to but I always end up surrounded by the people that change the subject into a completely different direction. The reality of it is you have to be happy for yourself, not everybody will agree with the things you decide to do in your life but at the end of the day it is your life and you have to do what makes you happy. People are going to talk whether you doing bad or good, so why not just live your life and worry less about what people have to say right?

I hate taking naps in the middle of the day because then I’m up all night and I still have to get up early tomorrow. Anyways vacation is in 5 days, I know you’ll probably sick of seeing the countdown but you must understand how excited I am…it has been 3 long months and I really miss my boyfriend. On another note there’s some other exciting things coming up, I’m thinking about doing a giveaway of some sort because I have a lot of beauty products that I just bought (and haven’t opened) that I really don’t need. I might add some other things in there as well…..but I need ideas. What else?… favorite time of the year is coming around and that of course is Thanksgiving…and then Christmas. I’m really excited about Christmas because my goal is to be in our new place celebrating with my baby on his birthday for the first time since we’ve been together! I know I’ve been slacking and I plan on trying to post at least three times a week…but I always get backed up on things….I think I want to do more advice posts (beauty and non beauty) but I haven’t quite decided. Well I’m going to try to get some sleep because I know I will regret this in the morning.

The countdown is on!

Vacation is in 12 days and I’m so excited! Can’t wait to look at some apartments and hopefully pick one so we can get this move on the road. Last month and this month have been really stressful, been working really hard, sleeping very little and been breaking out like crazy. I feel like a teenager all over again, I’m trying to get myself together before I go see my boo so I have somewhat changed my diet and been using some different products to get my skin back the way it was. I hear some naturals say they have experienced some minor breakouts once they turned natural, has anyone else found that to be true? Give me some recommendations on what I could use on my face.

It’s October !

It’s October you guys and I am so excited, for four reasons exactly. 1. We are getting more into the fall weather, and I’m hoping to actually start seeing more of the fall weather. 2. My vacation is this month and I finally get to see my hubbies after two long months. 3. We are getting closer to our move date in December and 4. I get paid three times this month instead of two. I swear I need to do better on updating more often, but I’m always working and when I’m not I’m sleeping lol. Anyways what season is your favorite and why?