Hey guys, I’m getting really excited now. I just got approved for my vacation time for next month, so I will be in Charlotte checking out and hopefully applying for an apartment while I’m there. It’s getting real now because December is approaching rapidly and we are almost there. It has been very stressful trying to work as much as possible so that this move will be possible but it’s about that time we get out and get our own. Hey if anyone is from Charlotte, let me know of the good places to visit!

Apple Cider Vinegar

So guys I know I am probably late, but I just started using Apple Cider Vinegar and I must tell you there are so many benefits to this stuff. I know the smell really isn’t the greatest….but if you are able to get past smelling like chitlins I think you would love it too. Apple cider vinegar is helpful with:

1. Diabetes

Researchers found that people with type 2 diabetes have showed favorable changes in blood sugar levels when consuming two tablespoons of apple cider vinegar.

2. Weight Loss & High Blood Pressure

The acetic acid may help prevent the buildup of body fat and certain liver fats as well as lower blood pressure

3. Dandruff

Mixing about 1/4 cup apple cider vinegar with 1/4 cup of water  is said to restore the pH balance of the scalp and discourage the overgrowth of malassezia furfur, the yeast-like fungus thought to trigger dandruff.

4. Acne (I have been using this lately for my acne problems)
I have been using this as a toner after I wash my face. It also is suppose to balance the pH levels of your face eliminating acne flare ups.

Apple Cider Vinegar has sooooo many benefits, these are just a few, so please do you research and if you already use it let me know of some of the things you use it for down below.


Confessions: Part II

I know I’m not the only one that feels this way, I have had my fears of being alone. When looking at my family there is honestly no relationship I would want mine to be like. I think too many times people hold back what they really feel and allow for things to happen just to say that they have someone. I know I have done it, yes I am young, but I I have definitely allowed guys to do whatever just to say that I had someone. I’ve had my share of heartbreaks and even though at the time I couldn’t understand why, I am happy now that they are no longer in my life. Sure my relationship is not perfect, yea we have our issues just like everybody else, expect this time I don’t hold back. If I don’t like something, he knows right off the back, he may get mad because he knows I’m right but he knows that’s how I am and the biggest difference of all is that he actually respects that. Now here’s my confession, not too long ago I was called a “snooper” lol, I would go through what ever I could find just to find any traces of cheating. (My crazy way of thinking at the time, was I’ll leave him before he leaves me) As I get older I realize that I need to be okay with being by myself if he ever were to leave. This brings me to marriage, just because he puts a ring on it ladies, does not mean that he will stay committed to you. That’s me being real, although there are a lot of men that take their vows seriously there are those that just say them and that’s all…they are just words. Ladies there will always be another woman out there that is prettier than you, smarter than you,better at something than you, but the most important thing is what you see in yourself. Be okay with being alone if that person doesn’t seem right, and if you are in a relationship and you don’t like something…speak up about it. What are your thoughts about this?